Wednesday, June 27, 2012

Half my life

It was at dinner on Friday night that it struck me, and I have no idea why. But I suddenly yelped "Oh!" out of nowhere.

Prompting him (of course) to reply, "What?"

"It's past June 13th. Which means..." I paused for dramatic effect. "I can now officially say that I have known you more than half my life."

See, once upon a time (several months ago), we got to talking about how long we've known each other. And then one of us (me) wondered out loud if we could figure out exactly how long we've known each other. Which led to the realization that I've known him almost half my life. Which led to doing a little more math to figure out exactly when I'd pass that halfway point. We met in early September 1994. I was 17 years, 9 months old. So I figured out (with help from him) that once I passed the 35 years, 6 months mark, I would be able to say that I have known him longer than I have NOT known him.

June 13th was that halfway point. Which means now I can say I have known him just slightly more than half my life.

(He's going to have to be 39 before he can say the same.)

Half my life. Kind of mind-blowing, isn't it?

And dorky. I know. But I thought it was neat and deserved to be documented somehow.

So... here's to the next 17 years and 9 months.

(No, I am not doing the math to figure out how old I'll be then.)

Tuesday, May 22, 2012

A portrait of me

Ari brought home a school project... her interview/portrait of Mommy. I shared a piece of it on Facebook already (#6), but here is the entire thing, in all its glory.

In case you can't read it, it says...

1. What does your mommy do while you are at school? She usually is at work at a restaurant.
2. If your mommy was an animal, what kind would she be? A rabbit.
3. The most important rule your mommy says is... Stay with mom and dad so they can keep me safe.
4. Your favorite thing to do with your mommy is? Just mommy and Ariana time.
5. I love my mommy because... She loves me, too.
6. My mommy is as pretty as... My dad.
7. What makes your mommy laugh? When I make funny faces.
8. Nobody is better than she is at... Taking care of me.

I had to ask her about her answer for #1, because it was wrong. I work as a proofreader, and though I probably haven't used the word "proofreader" when I tell her about my job, I know I've described it to her in simpler terms. But seeing her answer to this question made me think that maybe I've done a poor job explaining it to her, which made me feel bad.

So I asked her, casually, not accusingly, "Why did you say I work at a restaurant?"

And I swear to you, I think she rolled her eyes a little as she answered, "Mo-om. Because... I didn't want to just say that you read books all day."

So, you guys, it's not that she doesn't know what I do... it's that she knows AND she thinks it's lame. I could not stop laughing. Which I think offended her a little. So I guess that means we're even.

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Ari in review, 2011 version

Yes, yes, once again I have been severely neglecting this blog. I am trying to decide what to do with it. It used to be pretty much strictly Ari-centric... and while there's nothing wrong with that, I am contemplating "expanding" this blog into more than just a review of what's going on with her.

That said, however, this post will be all about her. Nothing like a little procrastination, right?

If you follow me on Twitter or are my friend on Facebook, you know that I like to share funny/random things that Ari says/does. It's not because I'm trying to be one of those obnoxious parents who's all "You guys, my kid is the CUTEST and FUNNIEST human EVER!" But I figure, hey, if it amuses me, then maybe it will do the same for someone else, and who am I not to share the funny?

A couple years ago, I did an "Ari in review" post, wherein I collected most of the Ari quotations I'd tweeted during the year and stuffed them all in one post. So I thought it would be fun to do it again, because it's kind of nice to have all this stuff in one place (for ease of future blackmailing, of course). So feel free to skip... or enjoy.


Ari: Is my hair going to change color when I get older?
Tony: Not until you get really, really old.
Ari: Like Mommy?


Ari: Mama, I'm almost a grown-up.
Me: Oh yeah?
Ari: Yeah, because I'm almost as tall as you are.


Ari: So, Mama, do you have to go through Texas and all the states and then you get to space?
Me: Uh, something like that.


I asked Ari what her favorite thing at the gymnastics event was, and she said, "My favorite thing is that I'm glad I love you."


Me: Ari, don't cough in my face. You don't cough in people's faces.
Ari: Don't you love me?


Ari: When I get to heaven, I'm going to look for Sasha and Ivan because I bet they miss me. And I bet Ivan will jump on me.


I overheard Ari calmly explaining to Sharla, "I am not a dog. I am a people and I am in charge of you."


Me: Guess what?
Ari: What?
Me: I love you very much!
Ari: Guess what?
Me: What?
Ari: I love your very stinky feet!


Ari: Know what? A caterpillar goes into a raccoon and then becomes a butterfly.
Me: I think you mean cocoon.


Ari: Mommy, how do I look?
Me: You look like a monkey.
Ari: Now you say, How do I look?
Me: How do I look?
Ari: Like a elephant.


Me: Ari, I love this picture. But you know what?
Ari: What?
Me: I love you more.
Ari: You know who I love most?
Me: Who?
Ari: Sharla.


Ari: When I grow up, I'm going to be a farmer for 5 years, and then I'm going to play basketball and go to the Basketball Hall of Fame.


Ari, frustrated with her inability to find the right red crayon: "These crayons look red but write pink. Why does God keep tricking me?"


I scolded Sharla for chewing up something she wasn't supposed to have... then heard Ari whispering to Sharla, "It's ok. I still love you."


Ari: Mama?
Me: Yes?
Ari: I love you. And you know what? I just decided I love you even more than that. I don't know why.


Ari: The reason I don't cough into the air is so I don't get God sick.


Me: Ari, eat your breakfast.
Ari: I can't. My tongue is too itchy.


Ari tried telling me that "babies" rhymes with "chainsaw." Obviously she still has a lot to learn in school.


Me (reading Ari a bedtime story): "... Cookie upset the trash can."
Ari: That's silly. How could a trash can get upset?


Ari: Tomorrow I have to wear my rock star shirt because I want to feel like a rock star.


Ari: Mama, you know what? I pretty darn love you.


Ari (right after apologizing for a bad attitude): Mommy, I love you so much and I just can't believe how pretty you are.


Ari: You know what I want to be for next Halloween? Apple juice. Oh no wait, I'm just thirsty.


Ari, hiding from Daddy: Mama, tell him I turned into an invisible ghost and went to California.


Ari: What's God's middle name and last name?
Me: He doesn't have a middle or last name.
Ari: So he's just God? Hmm. I think he's Dr. God.


Me: Ok, no more cookies. 2 is enough.
Ari: I can't help it. You're the best baker ever and I just love them so much.